I really don't get why people become so upset when lawsuits are mentioned. I think if customers were more proactive in general and fought for their rights, companies would have accountability and would provide better services. I do not want to sue because I am angry or because I want to win a quick buck, but because they provided me with the wrong information that caused me damages. Filing a complaint at ARN seems a more reasonable first step, and that is what I will do, but still makes me wonder why the word "sue" makes people so triggered.
I had no idea I couldn't change a booking that already started, otherwise I wouldn't even have called SAS to try anything. It would have been so much easier if the conversation had gone like this:
Me: "Good morning, I want to see if there is a better option for me to get back home with less connections"
CS: "Sorry sir, unfortunately according to the rules you cannot make changes to the booking of a journey that already started"
Me: "Oh, ok, I understand, have a nice day!".
Instead it went like:
Me: "Good morning, I want to see if there is a better option for me to get back home with less connections"
CS: "I see this option from BKK to ARN and then ARN to CPH, two flights instead of four. But it's in business class, so you would have to use more points for that. Is it ok?"
Me: "Yes! Absolutely! This is great, thanks so much!"
CS: "Give me the credit card details, you will have to pay a fee of 150kr per passenger to make the changes"
Me: "Card number is...."
CS: "Thanks, the changes were made and you should be able to see them in the app soon!"
Me: "Great! Are the changes confirmed? Am I guaranteed to get the seats in these flights for sure? I have a hotel booking that can be cancelled until tomorrow and need to know if it is safe to cancel"
CS: "Yes sir, the seats are yours, you can cancel your hotel"
Me: "Thanks, have a nice day!"
After getting the news my changes were cancelled I even tried arguing that they changed my return trip by shortening the connection time in one of the airports and that this should allow me to change the booking, but they said the change was not big enough. It was indeed a small change, but I will have just 45 minutes to change flights and I am not comfortable with this time and I have the feeling something will go wrong, with me or my luggage not making it. Upsetting how they can change anything they want and you are forced to accept.
I got the original trip back though, and that is how I will go back home. I had to get the extra 2 days off again (I had already told my boss I could get back earlier and could start working sooner. He was happy to have me earlier). The hotel was not able to revert my cancellation which is very unfortunate because I was using IHG points to pay for those 2 nights. I searched for other hotels accepting IHG points and none had rooms with points for these days anymore. So I booked another hotel with money, and will ask for compensation from SAS.
So things are resolved for now. I hope I get the money back from SAS regarding the hotel. What upsets me the most is not just the money but the stress and waste of time this situation caused me during my holidays. And also having to explain all of this to my boss sure doesn't help at work. This is why I believe only asking for the hotel money back from SAS isn't enough, and they should somehow compensate for all of this stress they have caused. But I will start with the hotel only and lets see.
Thanks all for the help, I will post here how things progress and I wish a happy 2024 to all.